Blog 8

George Herbert Mead talked about the idea of the self which he splits into two different categories, the “I” and the “Me”. The “I” part of the self includes all of the thoughts that are going on inside one’s head and/or the initial reaction to a social situation. Some could think of this part of the self as the raw and unfiltered you. In contrast, the “Me” part of the self is the you that is presented after your thoughts are filtered through. One could look at the “Me” side as the side that you present to your professors or bosses at work.

I believe that we all show both sides of our Me’s and I’s but I agree with Mean in that it is definitely a situational thing. For example, I am not the type of person to confront a roommate if something minute that they are doing is bothering me. I tend to hold those feelings in, and only present the “Me” side of me to the particular roommate that is bothering me. But on the other hand, the “I” side of me will come out when I vent to my boyfriend or another roommate about the issue. My thoughts are not filtered when I complain about something that is bothering me, but I am notorious for showing the happy and nice “Me” side to the person that is creating the problem (which, I will admit, is a terrible character trait that I possess.)

I think that this idea still exists today in a large way, and everyone shows both of their sides, but only certain people can see their sides. I think it is just an interesting concept because it is all actually kind of obvious, but it doesn’t become obvious until you sit down and just think about the idea. I know that I for sure filter my true and raw thoughts before I say something to someone, even if that thing that I am saying isn’t something mean or rude.

The picture that I picked to go along with this blog could be taken as a funny representation of the “I” and the “Me” having to interact. I dissected the picture by seeing that the women is telling her husband that she doesn’t care if he acts crazy and wild with his own friends (showing that he would be displaying his “I” side) but around her friends she wants him to act nothing like his true self (showing the “Me” side of himself). Even though it does not line up perfectly, I think that this is a great and funny example of how one person can and certainly does possess both sides of the self that Mead talked about.

Blog 7

Anna Julia Cooper was an important African American social thinker back in her time. She studied race, sex and power and how they all played out in society. The aspect of her studies that stood out to me the most was her idea of pluralism. Cooper believed that pluralism was the act of understanding and accepting every culture in a society so that everyone is treated equally. An example that is often used to describe pluralism is a melting pot. In class, however, Dr. Barry told us to think of it as a stew, since every culture still stands alone (by possessing their own characteristics, beliefs and traditions) but they also mix well and see each other as equals.

It would be nice to think that pluralism exists fully in the United States, but I am not sure if that could ever be possible. There are a lot of cultures within the U.S. and some people cannot come to accept other cultures. There will always be people that are racist, or people that just do not care to learn about any other cultures because they are content with their own. I think it is great to learn about other cultures, however. It opens your eyes to the fact that not everyone is the same as you and traditions, beliefs and characteristics vary so much from culture to culture. Pluralism is something that Cooper saw in her studies and I do think that it is around today to some extent, but there will always be people who will not allow pluralism to exist fully.

Although Cooper did not specifically talk about religious pluralism, it is the same concept as regular pluralism, except it looks at different religions instead of cultures. The picture and website link (located below) that I chose for this blog are examples of what religious pluralism is all about. Coexist is an organization that works to help people understand and see the differences between 7 religions. Feel free to explore the website, I found some of the information very interesting.

http://coexistfoundation.org/

Blog 6

When talking about Charlotte Perkins Gilman in class, the idea that stood out to me the most was the origins of gender stratification. I found it very true of our culture today, that we live in an androcentric culture. I was not surprised that Gilman found that to be true back when she did her studies, but I thought that it would have changed from then to now. I never realized that our culture really is dominated by men until I actually thought about it. Politics are hugely run by men; professional men’s sports teams are given way more air time than women’s sports teams and so on. It is interesting to me that, largely, society is okay with men dominating many things. Certainty not everyone is on board with this idea of an androcentric culture, but not many things have been done to change or “fix” this fact.

Gilman also discusses private and public spheres in her writings. She says that males dominate the public sphere mostly because it is a man’s job to go out of the house to work and bring home the money. Females are seen to dominate the private sphere, in Gilman’s eyes, because their job is to stay home and do house work type jobs all day. These typical types of roles for men and women are starting to change now and I think that is something that is notable. I personally think it is so cool if a dad stays at home and raises the kids while the mom goes out in the world to work. It is a “new” and unique trend in our culture/society and I think that it’s something that could be looked at as honorable for the father to take on the role of raising the children.

I found it different that one part of Gilman’s origins of gender stratification still holds true today (androcentric culture) and the other part is tending to evolve and change (role of genders in public and private spheres). For most of the other social thinkers that we have analyzed in class, either their theory still exists in our society or does not exist so it was nice to see this idea that Gilman’s is (in some ways) only half “true”.

The video that I selected for this blog is one that I think fits perfectly for dads staying at home and moms going to work. It’s a music video that someone put together to go along with scenes from the movie Despicable Me while a song called Mr. Mom by Lonestar plays along in the background. I hope you enjoy it!

Blog 5

This last week we talked about an important women social thinker for the first time and her name was Harriet Martineau. I was excited about getting the chance to read some theories from a woman, since we have focused on men thus far in the semester.

One of the aspects that I find most interesting with Martineau’s thoughts and concepts is her idea of happiness and how it should operate in a society. She said, “the most important law of social life is that “the great ends of human association” aim above all “to the grand one, - the only general one, - … human happiness” (Classical Sociological Theory 296). This to me means that Martineau was very focused on the fact that if people were happy, their lives would be “good.” One thing that she failed to define, however, is her definition of happiness. As people brought up many great points in class, happiness is totally different from person to person and country to country. What makes me happy could make another person depressed and vice versa. If Martineau defined what she thought happiness is, I think that her theory on the social law of people being happy would become a lot clearer but I think that her overall message is valid. If one is happy, it is typical that they will lead a good life and some would say that leading a good life may lead to living out the American dream.

The video that I picked for this blog sheds very positive light onto what the American Dream is. I like the fact that the video gave examples in the beginning that the American Dream is different for every single person in America. The speaker says that “for some, the American dream is to achieve prosperity” and for others, “it is to provide for their children.” He goes on to say that no matter what your American dream is the very core of every dream is the belief in freedom. I agree with this statement because without freedom, many opportunities would be taken away from people. Things like education, freedom of speech, and the practice of religion would be compromised without our freedom.

I believe that Martineau’s views on human happiness apply in today’s world because I would say that living a happy life is a lot more enjoyable than living a life that is unhappy. The American dream ties into many people’s definition of happiness and I think that with one’s own definition of their dream, being happy and achieving that dream is very possible.  

Blog 4

Weber talked about three different types of authority including rational, traditional and charismatic. Rational authority is authority that is ruled by laws that people must obey; they are written that dictate how we behave. Traditional authority is something that is rules that we have grown up with. Something such as religion, gender roles and marriage are things that traditional authority is. An example is following something that your mom does, because her mom did it and her mom did it and so on. The last type of authority that Weber defines is charismatic authority. This is something that is common with figures in society such as President Obama or even the Beatles; generally this type of authority is able to gain a large following.

I think that these types of authorities still exist in today’s society. Weber developed these theories because he felt that society generally followed one type of authority then changed to another type. I think that to some extent that is true today also. For me personally, all three types of authority are prevalent in my life. Rational authority runs my life in the way that I must obey laws that the government has in place. Tradition authority shines through in my life by the gender roles that have been displayed in my family throughout the years. My dad cooked and cleaned while also going to work and my mom did the laundry and went to work. I think when I get married, those rules will apply to my relationship, since it is what I have grown up with. Finally, charismatic authority is in my life because of my advisor. I was sent to her because I was in transition of majors and she helped me more than I could have ever asked for. She inspired me, guided me and helped me with any and every question that I had.

I chose a short video of John F. Kennedy’s speech given on September 12, 1962. It is a very inspirational speech about America’s dream of going to the moon. My favorite quote from this short video is when he says, “We do things not because they’re easy, but because they are hard…” He inspires the people of NASA to not give up on something just because it is hard; he encourages them that the rewards will be well worth it. I think he is a great example of someone who holds a great amount of charismatic authority simply because he had a huge following and he was a very inspirational and charismatic public figure.